Sexual attraction, Pro & Con

[Dog Breath]

I personally happen to be highly attracted to women. I know it is all a matter of hormones but how much is too much. Does anyone have control over how attracted they are?
Sexual attraction is necessary for the perpetuation of species, but how much is needed? A mild twinge now and then will coax me into eating brussle-sprouts but only a couple times a year. Wouldn't that sort of desire be plenty for humans to survive?
What possible purpose does a sex drive that has me staring at every woman from the age of 16 to 65? Is it necessary to have the scent of a woman raise the hair on my arms simply for procreation?
There seems to be a big difference in male / female attraction. Women have the equivalent to a refrigerator magnet (most women) and want to please men primarily. Men have a "refrigerator magnet" the size of a Volkswagen! That animal part of us doesn't care about love, trust, or validation. It just want's to PLUG IN!!!
I hear women talking about strong sex drives but I think most of those are very co-dependent women whom have a strong desire for intimate contact which can be confused with plain ol desire for a nasty wet orgasm.
When I was 13 I am sure an attractive girl could have asked to borrow my liver and I would have complied just to impress her.
At this point of my life I can control my actions as I could then but not as well but that same old burning desire remains.
I wonder if life would be dull and unfulfilling with out sexual desire. What would there be to look forward to. What would give us the excitement, the rush that makes us feel alive?
Life would surely be different.

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Woof.
If it's so sick, why are you laughing?
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[Deadpool]

I know what you are talking about, mainly because I am at the receiving end. My god, you wouldn't believe how many women come up to me and ask for my number.....
At any rate, I think I left that feeling of "burning desire" back in the 12th grade.
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Fuck you I wont do what you tell me. -RATM

[King Bastard]

<FONT COLOR="Red">It's a simple matter of numbers. Women only have X amount of eggs, whereas us guys can churn out babybutter for many more years than a woman stays viable as a babyfactory. that being said, it makes sense for a woman to be more picky, biologically speaking, than a man.</FONT c>

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Borne of sin, C',mon in... Andre Linoge; Storm of the Century

[MAC]

Picture this.
Under your hood is a blown and injected 800HP Big Block roller motor called a reproductive system.
Its literally its own life force.
A pharmacy connected directly to your lymphatic system.

Its idling.
Its fouling plugs.
Its loading up.

You need to run that baby down the track.
Burn the tires off the bitch.
WOT!

And you need to do it regularly.
That motor is going to loose compression one of these days.
And god forbid it should seize up
or that you throw a rod.....

P.S. Don't forget your wheelie bars.



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[PB]

Cute comparison mac.

From a females point of view.. i agree and disagree about the magnets! I think it is individual to the person. me personally.. ama bit different from other women or atleast that is what i am told. to a certain extent. ......
for example... generally y ou have a few types of women and a few types of men.

Females:
1)they enjoy sex, regardless who it is with.... they aren't exactly picky, but usually have atleast something they find attractive about the guy if it is his eyes, or his wallet, or the buldge in his pants.

2)They are picky, and have to have a certain type of combination in the man... and will search for that perfect man until they find him or atleast settle for second best.

3) Some women even find that one man that they "love" and still have the desire to have sex with other people.

4) some women want sex w/ males and females - but this also is generally based on attractiveness.

5) they enjoy sex, but not with every man that winks at them. Like me.. I'm no angel, but am very picky about who engage in sexual contact with. If i have a relationship with someone (not always spawned from attractive attributes) and i have sex with that person, a buzzer doesn't go off in my head... DING DONG>>>> find a new dick cause you already got that one! I love sex! But i don't think you have to have sex with everyone y ou are attracted with.... this is alot of the times different in men.

MEN:
1/) some men, see a attractive female and will have sexual thoughts and desires about that female, but will stay with the one he is with. To me.. thinking about it doesn't harm anything. And a man that can admit to his girl that he does is stronger than one that does not.

2) some men, will see a attractive women, and immediately try to find some way to slip her panties off.

3) then there are those like my baby brother who has only slept with the woman that he is now married to, and even though he may desire other women... he doesn't ever venture from his wife!

I may have jumped subjects a bit.. but hopefully you get my point.. which is that is an individual choice... everyone is different. i think life would be dull without sexual desire. I don't really think there can be too much as long as you aren't hurting others in the process of your desires, and that you are honest!

Does that make any sense or did i miss it entirely..? (brain a little bit of a cluster fuck today, as there is way too much going on up there) http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/smile.gif

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Why do we love the one that hurts us? And hurt the one that loves us?

[squee]

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by theMAC:
Picture this.
Under your hood is a blown and injected 800HP Big Block roller motor called a reproductive system.
Its literally its own life force.
A pharmacy connected directly to your lymphatic system.

Its idling.
Its fouling plugs.
Its loading up.

You need to run that baby down the track.
Burn the tires off the bitch.
WOT!

And you need to do it regularly.
That motor is going to loose compression one of these days.
And god forbid it should seize up
or that you throw a rod.....

P.S. Don't forget your wheelie bars.
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Ahaha that was funny as hell! I needed to laugh.

[Lady Sianna]

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>There seems to be a big difference in male / female attraction. Women have the equivalent to a refrigerator magnet (most women) and want to please men primarily. Men have a "refrigerator magnet" the size of a Volkswagen! That animal part of us doesn't care about love, trust, or validation. It just want's to PLUG IN!!!
I hear women talking about strong sex drives but I think most of those are very co-dependent women whom have a strong desire for intimate contact which can be confused with plain ol desire for a nasty wet orgasm.[/quote]

<FONT COLOR="purple">d00d...what kind of women do u know? are u livin in the middle of the bible belt or somethin?! :P

for real though...speaking on behalf of all strong, passionate, intelligent woman creatures out there...we like sex too! a lot. we just sometimes like it differently than men (i.e. w/genuine care & respect, w/someone we actually like...u get the pic).

we have every right to be picky! can't walk down the fuckin street w/out being accosted in one way or another by some idiot in a car honkin or yellin out his window...oh, yeah, that's what i want. c'mon baby, right here, right now. give me a fuckin break!

is it so difficult to understand that although we are & appreciate being viewed as sexual beings, there is sooo much more to us than that...and yes, it takes a little more than a stirring of the wind (no pun intended! http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/wink.gif) to get us aroused...well, most of the time anyway.

why have empty, meaningless sex with a stranger when u can have a passionate romp with someone u know & trust...it tends to eliminate the bullshit. friends make the best lovers.

anyways...there's a little somethin to chew on. open for discussion? 'tis indeed a vast & mysterious subject...</FONT c>


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<FONT COLOR="red">surrender to the naked darkness...</FONT c>

[squee]

Ehhh I am horny all of the time because I am a 21-year-old male. I hate how women will USE this, how they will USE sex like a tool to affect people, not to have fun. Well, maybe they think it's fun, I dunno, there are some fucked-up people out there nowadays.

Anyway Sianna's right, it's better when you do it WITH someone than when you do it TO someone. Most people think fucking is nothing more than an act of penetrative domination and not an expression of love and physical pleasure.

This is because most people are dumb motherfuckers.

I wish I had some advice for you, but I get used just as much as everyone else, if not more, so I'm just a bitter bastard boy. Sorry.

[Mudflap]

<FONT COLOR="orange">I'm not gettin' any, therefore I vote CON.

Kaye could change my mind, however. http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/wink.gif</FONT c>

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<FONT COLOR="orange">Even the losers...
Get lucky sometimes.</FONT c>

[Buddha's Penis!]

i'm not very driven, hormonally. i can't say it's a negative thing because it's simply not there. i don't care enough about the action to compromise any of my views or characteristics in the slightest, by which i mean putting the moves on women i don't know or care about. it's against my nature, and i don't do it.
however, to be more driven means you're more persistent, determined, and motivated to get laid, which means you would get laid more often. in a survival-of-the-species sense this is for the best.

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[Skeet]

I have the libedo of a 8 year old sock. But recently, VERY recently, like, since Johnny passed away, last Sunday, I have had MAD urges to stick me willy in something. I haven't had sex in almost 3 years (and I'm only 19, sheesh) and I haven't really had any exceptional desire to until two days ago. I think my crotch is going to explode.

S.O.S.

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[King Bastard]

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by Lady Sianna:

<FONT COLOR="purple">for real though...speaking on behalf of all strong, passionate, intelligent woman creatures out there...</FONT c>


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<FONT COLOR="Red">But you do realize that you are part of a select few among your gender, dont you? All those qualities in one person is a rare thing indeed.</FONT c>

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Borne of sin, C',mon in... Andre Linoge; Storm of the Century

[Rabble Rouser]

I hardly have any sexual urges anymore. I guess it comes from not being able to get laid if my life depended on it. I worry though sometimes, like if I'll ever have urges, because I've gone so long without it.

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"We must put an end to this. We've seen enough body bags and ballsacks." - Henry Kissinger

[Time Slipping]

Don't worry. Sex can get tedious. Or so I heard. Me, I find it rather enjoyable. But there needs to be some exitement to spice it up, like the chances of being caught...........

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"Those who seek my life will be destroyed
They will go down to the depths of the earth
They will be given over to the sword
and become the food of the jackals"

[Koliedrus]

Excuse the interruption but while I was walking by, I couldn't help noticing that everyone has their hand in the air.

*tsk*

Ok, hall passes for the lot of you. Make it quick.

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Oyster-brain in a cookie jar.

[Lady Sianna]

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Orig posted by King Bastard:

But you do realize that you are part of a select few among your gender, dont you? All those qualities in one person is a rare thing indeed.[/quote]

<FONT COLOR="purple">indeed i do...but we are out there! doesn't that make anyone hopeful?! http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/biggrin.gif

its raining here again...know what that means. the lady is gettin all fiesty-like! http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/wink.gif</FONT c>


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<FONT COLOR="red">surrender to the naked darkness...</FONT c>

[Mordecai]

I'd have to say that at 26, I still chase an awful lot of skirt. Yes it's very nice to have grand romp with someone that I am close to. It usually produces a very nice intimacy and knowledge of a partners body is very nice. On the other hand, there's the grand excitment of exploring new territory, and I don't think women are immune this either, or at least my wife wasn't. Anyways, i'd have to say, I greatly enjoy the close intimate sex that my darling Tif and I have, but that doesn't mean I don't want to seduce her room mate and taste a new flavor. Mmmmm I love women.

-m


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Is that all?

[rage]

hmm....well.....I think I have to agree with most of the people above. I have known girls that jump at the word "sex" (and not in a 'lets screw' sort of way, more of a 'PERVERT!!!!' sort of way), and then known girls who have gone to the club once a week, found a different guy every week, and screwed the hell out of them. (of course, most of them have diseases now......but that doesn't stop them), and I also have a friend that used to be straight, loved sex, but was faithful to her boyfriend, then they broke up and she is bi and just loves sex. Period.

As far as guys go - most of them I know crave sex like I do cigarettes. A pack a day http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/biggrin.gif. A good friend of mine is devoted to his girlfriend, but lately, (and it seems more often than not when he gets frustrated by her), since they have been going out for a while, he wants new "pussy" (sorry if that offends anyone...well..not really...)
And then there is me. I'm a virgin, not afraid to admit it(even hiding behind a screen name http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/wink.gif heh heh), but definitely not against having sex, or performing other...umm...sexual pleasures, and having them performed on me http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/wink.gif..... I'm just sorta waiting for the right person to have sex with for the first time I guess....I dont want it to be some chick I pick up at a party, and we are both drunk. heh...of course after that first time....well, that's a different story. http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/wink.gif

As far as the pro's and con's go - well..those should be obvious. STD's and Babies. http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/smile.gif 'nough said, I already blabbered to much already.


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