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Barbie
12-17-2003, 07:43 PM
Written last year this time...still appropriate...perhaps.
A little Canadian skew...

Merry Christmas (http://www.cbc.ca/national/rex/rex20021211.html)

December 11, 2002
It's ancient history now, but I can remember a time when there was a movement to put "Christ" back in Christmas. That battle's forgotten. We reached a more modern stage now: trying to keep "Christmas" in Christmas.

Christmas is a moveable feast in more ways than one. The season that feeds off such diverse channels as the early gospel stories, O Henry and Charles Dickens – especially Dickens, A Christmas Carol is the founding story of the "modern" Christmas – and then there are the cards, the carols, ancient and modern. There is Hollywood – Bing Crosby movies, Alistar Simms, the one with the Macy's Santa Claus. There's that wretched drummer boy song, may its composer be throttled. Johnny Mathis, Anne Murray specials. Hundreds of choirs. And of course there is Christmas shopping.

Finally, let us not forget Mr. Claus – the great Santa – everyone from Jim Varney to Coca-Cola and a million Canadian tire store commercials has had Santa for the universal emblem. And the elves and reindeers. The tree and its lights. Christmas is a wilderness of emblems.

But there is one other layer of Christmas that is as important as all these. Every family's memory, of those families that celebrate Christmas (and they are millions), of their family Christmas. It's wound into people's lives.

The essence of Christmas is its sentiment. However thinly or fervently we approach the season, those who celebrate it, distinguish it from all other holidays or party days or long weekends, by a sentiment of trying to be cheerful in a bleak world, wishing their fellow beings good will, helping when possible those less fortunate – if Christmas did not exist except for the Salvation Army, it would be worth keeping on the calendar.

I suppose what I'm saying is that it's the least vicious time of the year – the one time when secularists and religionists agree to try, and try consciously, to live out the spirit of benevolence, wishing their fellow beings well, and actually trying to mean it.

But, we are in the age of political correctness and every Christmas, as sure as there is the patter of reindeer hooves on the rooftop, there will be some dry and forced controversy on whether "Merry Christmas" is offensive, on whether the Christmas tree should be called the holiday tree. (Toronto city council spent their energies on this fatuous debate recently. Toronto city council once banned the Barenaked Ladies because their name was "sexist" – enough said.)

It's a Christmas tree again and even as I speak the Royal Canadian Mint is shilling its greatly deflated coins in a commercial that speaks of the "12 days of giving." Evidently "12 days of Christmas" to plug the sale of their coins during Christmas for people who might buy them during Christmas as Christmas presents is too "hot" for the Royal Canadian Mint. "Christmas" might be offensive. What a wonderfully diverse, sensitive, culturally tolerant bunch we have at the Royal Mint. They want your Christmas money, but they don't want Christmas in their ads.

Christmas is at least as much a Canadian tradition as any other Canadian tradition. From the trenches of the First World War where fighting stopped for Christmas to the latest damn GAP ad, Christmas is, in all its diverse and benign and mixed manifestations, one of the kindest, longest, richest, most benevolent traditions we have.

So in the name of cultural diversity it deserves as much respect as any other. Respect for tradition does not involve emasculating the most popular ones – at least as much, by the way, as the "Royal" in Royal Canadian Mint. If they want to peddle their hardware during Christmas, the Mint should be obliged to at least pay respect to the tradition they are so keen on exploiting.

Merry Christmas, Mint.

For The National, I'm Rex Murphy.

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Aside from Mike and Kristine, I don't have any family left.

This time of year means time off work. Really good food, great parties for the end of year/new years, chocolate (but that's for every day, no?), and The Grinch Who Stole Christmas on CBC.

Billyman
12-18-2003, 12:57 AM
I'll address the question in the title of the thread.

Not a goddamn thing except hassle and expense. :mad:

SatansLeftHand
12-18-2003, 03:51 AM
fuck christmas, anyway.

BRING BACK SATURNALIA!

Lady Sianna
12-18-2003, 03:23 PM
"xmas" to me means Curt's annual yule party and homemade wassail!

it doens't mean so much to me as a social holiday. especially because of it's gross commercialization and pretense of being all warm and fuzzy and family and stuff.

i celebrate the winter solstice like a good little pagan. :)

the b/f's family has a ritual "gumbo night" and gathering at grandma's house on xmas eve which i like because his family shares the wine freely and makes general merriment.

SimpleSimon
12-18-2003, 05:54 PM
This season? You mean winter?

Gloom, overcast skies, cool (occasionally cold) weather, rain, snarling people, horrible traffic, desperation and despair on the majority of the faces around me, tacky crap on lightpoles and peoples houses, false religious imagery everywhere, gross commercial appeals for money I don't have, deepening depression as the anniversary of Julie's murder swiftly approaches.

Fuck this season.

zim
12-18-2003, 08:39 PM
flu.

Torque
12-18-2003, 09:18 PM
Kids going nutty and checking to see if santa might have come while they were in the bathroom. Tree sap on my fingers. Trifle at my mom's house. Time off work. Just generally a time of year that i loved as a kid, was indifferent to as a young adult, and love again now that there is a new generation of Torquelets excited about cmisimuss.
You can say it's commercial and crap, but it only is if you let it be. Christmas is pretty much what you make of it. I enjoy the time off work with my family, playing with the kids new stuff, and putting the decorations on the tree. Every place my wife and I have travelled to since we were married, we have bought a xmas ornament from there. So we get to remember all the trips we have made. This year, my house is decorated with santas, snowmen, and reindeer that the kids made. They are stuck in odd places all over the walls, we let the kids put them up themselves.

Billyman
12-19-2003, 12:06 AM
Will you be my dad?

Torque
12-19-2003, 03:01 AM
As long as you can wipe yourself, and can keep drinks out of the living room, I guess so.

Billyman
12-19-2003, 05:24 AM
:)

I'm changing my title.

laure311
12-19-2003, 04:18 PM
christmas=my brother coming home, calling my sister a lot, family, love. presents. birthday. all that crap. the end. oh, and no school. for three fucking weeks.