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Nude_Rat_Voodoo
11-26-2003, 09:06 PM
Recently, A friend did something horrible(I cant really devulge information publicly...), but in the end, got not the results they deserved. (..what I think they deserved) Durring the situation, weither they realized it or not, I felt really mistreated/used. Im leaving soon (as in, moving away) and I dont want to go away and still feel hurt, nor leave the person in the dark.. but.. how should I let this person know? Im horrible at being upfront when it comes to friends... Theyve been there when I needed an ear and gave some helpful words, but thats been about it... *sigh*...help?
Pianomahnn
11-26-2003, 09:42 PM
So your friend did something horrible to you?
Not so much of a friend.
If you are feeling upset with this friend, make it known. But, if you're moving anyway it may not be worth the effort.
Pianomahnn
11-26-2003, 11:31 PM
Is this going to be lame drama?
Lame drama upsets me.
edit: There was a response from someone before this. Now it's gone. This post is useless. Yet. . .it remains!!!! HAAH AHA AHA HHHAHAHA HA HA AA
Mudflap
11-27-2003, 05:49 AM
My solution to a vague problem:
Tell her you appreciate the times she was there for you and gave you helpful advice. Also tell her how you feel about whatever it is she did. Don't tell her what you think about her because of what she did, just tell her how it made you feel. Then leave and don't worry about trying to keep in touch.
That should enable you to move away without feeling so much pain and additionally not leaving her in the dark.
Might as well tell us what happened.
Koliedrus
11-27-2003, 11:42 PM
Nope.
Not that I don't care. I do. You need to take this up with your friend FIRST!
In a way, you may have done that. Good first step.
Don't worry. We'll chime in with opinions, and may the forces of time and space forgive our ignorant benevolence.
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