another why?

[mute]

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[Rabble Rouser]

Most women aren't like that...let the dumb bitch get used, and I'd stop giving her your shoulder if she keeps dating this guy. She's using you the same way this guy is using her. She's a waste...forget about her. And if the other one eventually becomes like the first, do the same thing. Don't let them use you. They just want your sympathy...and they obviously want to be used or else they wouldn't be in the relationship. Fuck them. No, not like that. http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/tongue.gif

I could write an book on the dumb shit that men pull on women, but maybe I'll just start another topic about that...


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[TotalAnarchy]

When you date someone who is fucked up, even if you love them to bits, its just not going to work out. I know, I've tried. All you end up is with two people fucked up. Only she can sort out her own shit, no-one else. Give support, but they have to walk on their own feet. Fuckit, I dont know how rejection feels, honestly, i've never been turned down, which is a stroke of good luck, but I do understand your feelings towards them, trying to help and love them. You just got to understand that to help them, you have to be a friend, not a b/f, and they have to sort their own shit.

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"Savagely circling
His sword on all sides
Strikes his foes
Crushes them down
Thus drops each man
On whom its blow falls"

[SimpleSimon]

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by TotalAnarchy:
When you date someone who is fucked up, even if you love them to bits, its just not going to work out. I know, I've tried. All you end up is with two people fucked up. Only she can sort out her own shit, no-one else. Give support, but they have to walk on their own feet.[b][/quote]

Well said.


<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>[B]Fuckit, I dont know how rejection feels, honestly, i've never been turned down, which is a stroke of good luck, but I do understand your feelings towards them, trying to help and love them. You just got to understand that to help them, you have to be a friend, not a b/f, and they have to sort their own shit.
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You've never been turned down???? 18 years old, a player, and never been turned down!!!!

Fucking high school age bullshit is what that sounds like to me!

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[TotalAnarchy]

SS- its true, my friend. Thats down to two things - I have a good idea on what peoples opinions are going to be, so if I think there is a good possibility that there is a knockback, I rethink, and change my tack. The problem is that I have dated too many fucked up people. Thats how I know what teh fuck is up with these people. And now I'm out of HS, so knockbacks are imminent. Probably.

But Mute, you have to say your mind, tell them what you want to say, if you really want them that bad. Just think about it really hard. Fucked up people aint all fun and all. Trust me on that one.

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"Savagely circling
His sword on all sides
Strikes his foes
Crushes them down
Thus drops each man
On whom its blow falls"

[mute]

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[MAC]

Mute, ole boy.
I understand what your saying 100%.

And a lot of people here are giving you good advice.

But this is a rather normal occurance.

Being the nice guy sucks.
But you aren't beiung the nice guy for them.
You are being the nice guy for you.
You have to know whats right and wrong.
You have to be able to live with what you do to other people.
You have to believe in what those other people will do to you.

It ain't easy but its your choice.
Be anyway you want to be.
But be it because you believe in it.

(And when its hard to believe in something.
Shut up, put your head down and get back to work. Even if you can't figure it out you still have to live it or leave it.)


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