true love?

[disturbed]

do you think that an 18 or 19 yr old can find true love? what about people living together before they get married? personally i believe that if you have to ask yourself if you are in love, then it is not the real thing. just looking for other opinions...

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you let me violate you, you let me desecrate you
you let me penetrate you, you let me complicate you
help me i broke apart my insides, help me i've got no soul to sell
help me the only thing that works for me, help me get away from myself

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[MuffyTheVampyreLayer]

If I knew what true love was I probably wouldn't be in a non relationship.

[gone~away]

i have been in love (more than once)

and i am SURE of what it was/is

age isn't as big a factor as people like to think



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[Danite]

Unfortunately most of the time you don't realize true love until after it's gone. Instead of wondering or worrying if it's true love, let things progress and let time be the judge. As with faith, sometimes you have to believe in something, eventhough everyone is telling you it may not be true. Love is just that, an invisible force that takes control of your entire life leaving you with a feeling that no one can describe.

Don't confuse it with excitement or lust; when you are in love, you see forever in the other person's eyes.

Danite

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"And many of those whose bodies lie dead and buried will rise up, some to everlasting life and some to shame and everlasting contempt..." Daniel 12:3

[Deadpool]

Hahahha......love....hahaaa.

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Fuck you I wont do what you tell me. -RATM

[Rabble Rouser]

Love? What's that???

Call me old-fashioned (and I apologize for raining on your parade), but I don't think you can truly know what true love is at that young. You might know what lust is, but that's entirely different. You have lots of years (and experiences) ahead of you.

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"We must put an end to this. We've seen enough body bags and ballsacks." - Henry Kissinger

[Time Slipping]

<FONT COLOR="TimeSlipping">Love is in the eyes of the beholder. I have been in love once, and you know it is love when you know the way you feel when you might lose that. Or when you know you have to let go even though you don't want to because it is for the good of the other person. In fact, I still love her, but differently, as a friend, but a friend I would be willing to fight for. Or die for. Its fucking scary, but hey.</FONT c>

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"Those who seek my life will be destroyed
They will go down to the depths of the earth
They will be given over to the sword
and become the food of the jackals"

[Koliedrus]

Recall the girl under the boat? I love her still. Don't you?

The events in my life leading up to and following that experience make me who I am today. We devoted ourselves to the love we thought was unbreakable.

Years later, it turns out that we were right. We primed ourselves for the love we would give to others. Now I have a wife and two children. I am one happy Dad/Husband http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/smile.gif

True love (in my opinion) has nothing to do with a particular individual. It's accumulated from birth.

It comes from you.



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Rabble is taxing my brain.

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[Time Slipping]

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by RogueWarrior:
I was going to say something, but Koliedrus said it first and better.

Carry on, then. http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/smile.gif

[/quote]

<FONT COLOR="TimeSlipping">Is it the drugs or does that not make gramatical sense?</FONT c>

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"Those who seek my life will be destroyed
They will go down to the depths of the earth
They will be given over to the sword
and become the food of the jackals"

[This message has been edited by RogueWarrior (edited 04-25-2001).]

[Koliedrus]

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by Time Slipping:


Is it the drugs or does that not make gramatical sense[/quote]

It's the drugs.

Why are you hiding your thoughts?

Open your mind to me. You cannot resist.



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Rabble is taxing my brain.

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[Time Slipping]

<FONT COLOR="TimeSlipping">Hide my thoughts? What do you mean? I only choose to do what I do because I do what I do because that is what is done because I do it. Simple. So what to share?</FONT c>

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"Those who seek my life will be destroyed
They will go down to the depths of the earth
They will be given over to the sword
and become the food of the jackals"

[Koliedrus]

I'll accept that. I like to know what I'm doing when I do it, and I do what I'm doing because I don't know what to do when I'm not doing it.

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Rabble is taxing my brain.

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[Time Slipping]

You do not know what you are doing when you don't know what you are doing because you arn't doing anything EXACTLY for that reason, you arn't doing anything, therefore leaving you doing nothing.

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"Those who seek my life will be destroyed
They will go down to the depths of the earth
They will be given over to the sword
and become the food of the jackals"

[Time Slipping]

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by Time Slipping:
<FONT COLOR="TimeSlipping">You do not know what you are doing when you don't know what you are doing because you arn't doing anything EXACTLY for that reason, you arn't doing anything, therefore leaving you doing nothing. Edit for the reality of color</FONT c>

[/quote]



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"Those who seek my life will be destroyed
They will go down to the depths of the earth
They will be given over to the sword
and become the food of the jackals"

[Deadpool]

http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/mad.gif

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Fuck you I wont do what you tell me. -RATM

[MAC]

I'm with DP
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Don't shake the devil's hand and say you're only kidding.

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[estero]

<font color=pink>I thought I had found true love with my ex boyfriend of four years. I know it was love but true love? I'm not so sure anymore. I believe that true love can only be possible with the person you will spend the rest of your life with, but even so, many people marry and hate their spouse. I'm not sure who said this but I agree, "its true love when you see forever in their eyes."

Rock on.

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My name is Kaye and I probably don't like you. (http://pub58.ezboard.com/bcatch2257643)

[estero]

<font color=pink>For all the women who have been cheated on, go download: I've heard it all before by sunshine anderson. If you don't like R&B don't download it.

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My name is Kaye and I probably don't like you. (http://pub58.ezboard.com/bcatch2257643)

[estero]

<font color=pink>sorry double post.
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[PB]

True love ...
when you don't care what others think!
When you can't explain why you love someone.
When the thought of them leaving brings tears to your eyes.
when you will go through hell for the chance just to have them love you back.
when you 10 years after it is over, can still say you love that person, and mean it.
when you are 100 % comfortable..
i don't think it can happen at a particular age, just society passed it off at first as "puppy love" and as a society we accept it and do not question it.
true love will linger in your heart for eternity, and not just until the next one comes along.
when you will do anything for that person..
someone said it earlier... generally you do not realize true love until it is gone, and then ir proves to be true love because you then mourn over it, because a part of your "heart" has died.

and so much more.. but that should be enough!


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Why do we love the one that hurts us? And hurt the one that loves us?

[MuffyTheVampyreLayer]

If I saw 'forever' in someones eyes, I would run like hell. Seriously. I don't think I will ever be loved like that, because I don't want to be loved like that. I deny myself love because, basically, I don't think I deserve it. I am a fairly crap sort of a person.
Whe my sons father ans I were 'in love' it worried me. I saw it as a burden, and something that I had to struggle to maintain. In the future, I saw an endless battle where I had force myself not to lose interest in him. In the end I gave up. I guess that was not true love, as if it was, I would have endeavoured to keep the relationship, and I don't think I would have worried about getting bored with him.

[disturbed]

how do you feel about people living together before marriage?

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you let me violate you, you let me desecrate you
you let me penetrate you, you let me complicate you
help me i broke apart my insides, help me i've got no soul to sell
help me the only thing that works for me, help me get away from myself

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[MuffyTheVampyreLayer]

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by disturbed:
how do you feel about people living together before marriage?

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Its a must. How the hell are you supposed to know whether you could tolerate someone for a lifetime, withouth having lived with them first?

Oh, I don't actually believe in marriage.

[Stevo]

i'm quite positive that true love exists. whether it's fair or not.. i'd have to say no.

and yes. 18 and 19 year olds are capable of true love. age means nothing.... unles you're younger than 15.. then it's just ridiculous.

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she's got everything i need..... pharmacy keys

[zoey]

what is this 'love' that you speak of?

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[Time Slipping]

<FONT COLOR="TimeSlipping">Somthing intangiable, zoey. Somthing outside lesbian porn. Somthing bigger, if there is such a thing.</FONT c>

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"Those who seek my life will be destroyed
They will go down to the depths of the earth
They will be given over to the sword
and become the food of the jackals"

[MAC]

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by MuffyTheVampyreLayer:
If I saw 'forever' in someones eyes, I would run like hell. Seriously. I don't think I will ever be loved like that, because I don't want to be loved like that. I deny myself love because, basically, I don't think I deserve it. I am a fairly crap sort of a person.
Whe my sons father ans I were 'in love' it worried me. I saw it as a burden, and something that I had to struggle to maintain. In the future, I saw an endless battle where I had force myself not to lose interest in him. In the end I gave up. I guess that was not true love, as if it was, I would have endeavoured to keep the relationship, and I don't think I would have worried about getting bored with him.[/quote]

Ahem.
When you see forever in someone's eyes its a reflection.
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[Time Slipping]

A reflection of what????????

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"Those who seek my life will be destroyed
They will go down to the depths of the earth
They will be given over to the sword
and become the food of the jackals"

[Kayla]

i think anyone can find love at any age..good luck

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[mute]

i agree with Danite

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Unfortunately most of the time you don't realize true love until after it's gone. Instead of wondering or worrying if it's true love, let things progress and let time be the judge. As with faith, sometimes you have to believe in something, eventhough everyone is telling you it may not be true. Love is just that, an invisible force that takes control of your entire life leaving you with a feeling that no one can describe.
[/quote]

Koliedrus
(god, you make a lot of sense all the time..)
<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>
True love (in my opinion) has nothing to do with a particular individual. It's accumulated from birth.

It comes from you.
[/quote]

and stevo

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i'm quite positive that true love exists. whether it's fair or not..
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i don't get the sentacne after "i'd have to say no."

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[joanus]

I don't think that 18 is too young to find true love, hell I'd be a hipacrit if I did. I am 18 and have been with my bf for a little over a year. We have yet to have an all out argument and I absolutely would do anything on this earth for him if I can. I really think I've found the one! Let me quit here I could go all day on that.

As far as living together before marriage goes...
I stay with billyman every weekend and occasionally during the week. I don't have the first problem with it and you know he doesn't due to any religious beliefs. http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/smile.gif
My mom has more concerns about it than I. She complains that I'm going to hell and that it will runion my reputation in town. That is such a crock of bullshit. I've only been with him and hopefully will be with him the rest of my days so how the HELL is it runioning my rep.?