Touch me Damnit! [Archive]

07-18-2001, 09:03 PM

Physical touch....
Is it a necessity in your life? Do you have to have someone touch you? Do you get that tingly feeling from a certain person's touch.

I personally am a touchy feely person... I can't stand to not be touched, or held. Am I the only person with this problem?

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Dog Breath

07-18-2001, 09:04 PM

*Wishes he could touch PB* http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/frown.gif

He he.

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Deadpool

07-18-2001, 09:37 PM

Im numb like if I was on novocaine. Oh well.

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07-18-2001, 11:27 PM

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by Dog Breath:
*Wishes he could touch PB* http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/frown.gif

He he.

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Mudflap

07-19-2001, 12:49 AM

Being touched can be nice, but it isn't a necessity of life. I am largely untouched and yet I live.

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MAC

07-19-2001, 02:03 AM

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by Mudflap:
Being touched can be nice, but it isn't a necessity of life. I am largely untouched and yet I live.

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Touching yourself doesn't count. It only makes you a bitter old bastard.

Did I just say that? http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/eek.gif

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Bishop

07-19-2001, 02:40 AM

Myself, I come from a very demonstrative family so i'm more inclined to show effection through touch, and also "accept" it that way. Sometimes, especially when i'm not feeling all that great, there's nothing in the world better than being hugged or held close to someone I love.

My wife on the other hand... didn't grow up with that type of endearment, so it makes it somewhat difficult at times when she's "not in the mood" to be "messed with." But I still hug her every night after she's fallen asleep. >:) Our daughter is like I am, she loves being held and hugged, and sometimes almost to the point we have to pry her off us.

Some people aren't much for being touched, but I don't really think there's anything wrong with wanting to touch someone, be held or to hold someone to get that warm or tingly feeling. That is, as long as it's nothing you take too far like climbing all over a friend and acting like you're humping their neck just to say, "HEY GLAD TO SEE YA!!" :)

Kayla

07-19-2001, 02:54 AM

touch is good....its a good way to communicate feelings

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I sure could use a vacation from this stupid shit....
I feel released, bad times desceased, my confidence has increased, reality is here!
Everywhere its been the same, feeling like i am outside in the rain
A mental mind fuck can be nice

Mudflap

07-19-2001, 04:17 AM

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by theMAC:

Touching yourself doesn't count. It only makes you a bitter old bastard.

Did I just say that? http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/eek.gif

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I am bitter for reasons entirely independant from touching myself. http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/tongue.gif

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Deadpool

07-19-2001, 04:26 AM

I'd touch people more, but then I'd prolly go to jail for sexual harrasment.

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Cruise Director

07-19-2001, 07:29 AM

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by Psychotic _ Bitch:
Physical touch....
Is it a necessity in your life? Do you have to have someone touch you? Do you get that tingly feeling from a certain person's touch.

I personally am a touchy feely person... I can't stand to not be touched, or held. Am I the only person with this problem?

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*singing*
When I think about you... I touch myself...
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Touch is important. Watch how hospitals handle new born babies. They're always touching and rubbing them. I'm pretty sure that's for their health.

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MAC

07-19-2001, 12:50 PM

Funny, I have NO RECOLLECTION of posting here.

But I rarely touch people.
With just a few lucky acceptions who get all my attention. http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/smile.gif

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Koliedrus

07-19-2001, 01:05 PM

Touch = good

BRB

Need to add "Tommy" to my movie rental list before I forget...

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Dog Breath

07-19-2001, 01:17 PM

See ME. Feel Me. Touch Me. Heal ME.

Just watch out for Uncle Wasizname.

Tina Turner hasn't moved like that since.

WHAT ABOUT THE BOY? WHAT ABOUT THE BOOOOOY, WHAT ABOUT THE BOY HE SAW IT AAAAAALLLL!

Heh heh.

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07-19-2001, 02:38 PM

I think that Al said it best...

" Look, but don't touch... "
"touch... but don't taste..."
"taste.... but don't swallow..."
"swallow.. but don't enjoy it.."

(no wise cracks about swallowing either please) *mental note: mans favorite sense of touching*

I think that is pretty much what the Devil said atleast...

I agree that it is based on how you were "brought up" type of thing.. my son, has to just about be pulled off of me at times.. the other day.. he says " mommy I want a kiss" and I said well son, i have given you like 30 in the past 10 minutes... he looks at me , bats his eyes.. and says "yeah but I want fourty" .... all this from someone who isn't even 3 yet... lol.. The girly's will thank me later... wait a minute... maybe I should teach him something different.. lol

Physical touch , it is something I have to have.. It's does for my emotional status what sex does for my attitude... makes me a much happier person.. I'm one of those people who has to be carressed and often. When the SO lays down in bed with me at night, if he doesn't wrap his arms around me, I think something is wrong... he on the other hand just thinks he is trying to be comfortable the other way around.. lol. I guess i'm the only idiot that senses a difference in holding someone and being held!

and if the touch from yourself, gives you that tingly feeling inside.... you have deeper issues that not having someone else to touch! http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/biggrin.gif

PB

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squee

07-21-2001, 06:21 PM

Nobody ever touches me. I get no hugs, no strokes, no pats on the back, no backrubs.

The net effect of which is that when the cute barmaid at the Log Palace (where we all go to hoist a glass o' black) touches my knee I flip out and spill beer all over myself.

It's extremely sexy, let me tell you!

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Lady Sianna

07-22-2001, 12:32 AM

touch is definitely a good thing. a simple caress or slight touch of the hair or even a reassuring hand on the shoulder can say so much. touching is a means of communication. its a transference of energy.

but it can be misconstrued and misunderstood and completely inappropriate when the touchee isn't cool with being touched. respect the boundaries of others...and know you're own.

but, yeah, i like to touch & to be touched - provided i don't get icky vibes from the person. i'm very affectionate with my friends. hugs are good! http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/smile.gif

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07-22-2001, 12:40 AM

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by Lady Sianna:

but, yeah, i like to touch & to be touched - provided i don't get icky vibes from the person. i'm very affectionate with my friends. hugs are good! http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/smile.gif

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exactly/... I don't go around just touching anyone, or letting just anybody and everybody touch on me. But with the SO, and my son and family, I am a very hug me kiss me type of person... although I think SO thinks it is strange sometimes, and thinks I touch too much sometimes... but that's just him.
But most of my "girlfriends" always hug when we see eat other, and one of my really good girlfriends greets me with a big kiss on the lips everytime she sees me. *PB enjoys this* but seriously, I think touch is one of the most reassuring ways to know that someone cares for you. *PB likes to smack RW on his ass, just to remind him of how much I love him, and am thankful for his friendship* lol... *evil grin*

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King Bastard

07-22-2001, 01:49 PM

I think my mom forgot that the umbilical cord got cut over 28 years ago, and is always asking for hugs and kisses and stuff.... so in that vein, I was raised with a lot of demonstrative love. But I dont like having to ALWAYS show it like tyhat. At this point its almost aversion therapy.

On the other hand tho (heh), I really do miss the feelings of having a special someone to wrap my arms around, and to have them do the same. I really dig having that special someone, and just holding them close. To feel their heartbeat resonating thru me. When wanted.... its a damned good thing.

Sianna got it right tho. Touching, holding ad nausem... its a form of communicative transference. I can say a lot to ya just by a handshake, hug, or what have you.

Bah... now I'm depressed....

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Lady Sianna

07-22-2001, 06:15 PM

/me hugz KB... http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/smile.gif

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Uberwonder

07-22-2001, 06:43 PM

I live in a house full of ticks. I am constantly mistaken for a jungle gym or a recliner.
The chances of anyone passing another in this house without some sort of contact is slim indeed.

It is the way it should be.

Mudflap

07-22-2001, 09:48 PM

/me sits on Uberwonder's lap and tugs his beard

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Uberwonder

07-22-2001, 10:06 PM

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by Mudflap:
/me sits on Uberwonder's lap and tugs his beard

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You had better tell me what you want for Christmas before people start talking about us.

Mudflap

07-22-2001, 10:45 PM

<BLOCKQUOTE><HR>Originally posted by Uberwonder:

You had better tell me what you want for Christmas before people start talking about us.

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I don't want much.

Courage to change the things that I can change.

Serenity to accept the things I cannot change.

Wisdom to know the difference.

And ten million bucks.

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Uberwonder

07-22-2001, 10:50 PM

OK, one poster from the Hallmark store and a pair of white tails (you get the starter set).

Mudflap

07-22-2001, 10:58 PM

Ha! You've been in the Hallmark store!

Double ha! You've looked at the posters!

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Billyman

07-22-2001, 11:43 PM

Touch: me like, me like. It isn't a necessity, but very, very, very enjoyable. Whether it be a sexual touch, loving touch, or just holding hands walking in the mall.

Touch good, touch PB, real good http://www.thehypertribe.net/ubb/wink.gif

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Rabble Rouser

07-23-2001, 04:00 AM

I don't like being touched. It's weird, because sometimes I'd like to be touched, but the minute they touch me, I pull away from them. I guess I'm weird.

I've never been in a relationship, so I guess I can't miss what I've never had.

I don't think it's a necessity.

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[This message has been edited by Rabble Rouser (edited 07-22-2001).]